Sex Ed

when you have some sex with someone you love, things get complicated.
it's not something you can shrug off. -from Mr. Write

I read her blog awhile ago and she wrote something about virginity. although I agree with what she says, this is the 21st century. I'm not saying that one has to go out and find somebody you can screw with. what I'm trying to say is that, I somewhat agree to the issue of premarital sex (PMS). as long as it is about love. there's commitment. you do it not just for the heck of it but for something. sex, they say, is the most expressive form of love. thus the term making love. but that doesn't mean that you have to have sex with your significant other to prove your love for each other. sex, making love, or whatever you want to call it, isn't "proof" but rather, an expression. but then again, there are other ways of expressing love.

*sigh* how do I explain this? let's take me for example. I swore to myself I would never have sex with someone until after college. I won't be such a hypocrite to say I can wait up for marriage. although I can, what I'm saying is, I'll do it if I'm stable already. if the both of us have stable jobs and bright, crystal clear futures. I wouldn't do it if I still see a blurry tomorrow ahead of me.

I also don't think having PMS is a sin. again, as long as it's about love.

what I don't agree with are one-night-stands and fuck buddies and friends with benefits. damn. I know a lot of people like this and I despise them.

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guys. kung ano man yung alam ninyong "biological" issue, quiet nalang kayo. respect naman please. respect. thanks. we really appreciate it.

mood: concerned
currently listening to: frieday - bizzy bone